Holiday Enjoyment At Home

 Are you exhausted? Bored of routine work? Constant pressure at work place? Tired of performance rat-race? Or, just get down by the inflation blow?
These are all part of modern life phenomena. And very frankly very little help you could expect from outside! Luckily, one can help you unlimited! It's you, yourself! Never forget your other half is equally eager to help you! Vacation is a great way out, but spiraling inflation couldn't let you go to your desired place! So what? Let's see how we could help you holiday enjoyment at home.

If your last great sexual experience was on vacation, this article’s for you. There is something about vacations that allows people to open up and let loose. May be it’s the absence of to-do lists, the piles of responsibilities, the routine, etc. On vacations, people don’t worry about being too loud, too tired or making a mess. But it’s not always possible to hop on a flight and head to the nearest holiday destination to have great sex. Yet, that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy some quality sex in the confines of you own home. If you can’t go on an impromptu vacation to improve your sex life, here are some easy at-home moves you can try that will give you the feel of vacation sex.

Switch off from the world
Psychologically, a vacation is where we leave the cares of daily life behind, so that we can relax and have fun. For starters, turn off your beloved mobile phone. No calling, texting, or even surfing online for the latest cricket score. Make sure you keep one night of the week technology-free.

Send the kids away
You could either send the kids for a movie or even better, schedule a sleepover with their friends or grandparents. This way, you get to have all the privacy you need, without constantly having to worry about your children walking in.

Change your surrounding scenery
Upgrade your house, i.e. light it up with tropical scented candles and download some sexy exotic tunes. Incorporate scents, colours, aphrodisiacs or any other elements that will relax or entice you. Then, get frisky in a spot you’ve never tried before. The shower, kitchen, guest bedroom or if you have a garage, then there — basically anywhere but your usual place.

Turn in early
One reason why sex is so good on vacation is because you get to catch up on your sleep. So stay in on a Friday night and cancel all your plans for Saturday morning. Go to bed early (we don’t suggest you have to sleep!), and then stay in bed till late the following morning.

Take a few erotic risks
Forget your inhibitions and experiment. Try new positions, toys, props, even a blindfold or some light bondage. Be free and adventurous. In other words, act like you would on a vacation.

Get ‘busy’ more often
Another reason why vacation sex rocks, is the quantity of sex that you indulge in! There’s a bonus to upping your frequency. The more sex you have, the sexier you feel and the more you’ll want it.

Who says, you have to spend a lot of money (or even have to leave your home) to have great sex! Allow yourself the luxury of time, an enticing space and an open mind and you can go to paradise without leaving your home...

Interesting facts about SEX

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During 30 minutes of active sex, the average person burns approximately 200 calories. On average, adult men think about sex every seven seconds. Having sex at least once per week can lower a man’s risk of heart disease by 30%, stroke by 50%, and diabetes by 40%. It has also been shown that men with an active sex life are more likely to live past 80 years. The average size of an erect penis measures between 5 and 6 inches, while the average size of a flaccid penis is about 3.5 inches. The sperm count of the average American male in 2008 was down nearly 30% from the sperm count of an average American male 30 years ago. Viagra was released in 1998 with over $411 million in profits within its first three months Viagra, the well-known blue pill designed to help with erectile dysfunction, made $411 million in profits within the first three months of its release in 1998 before going on to make $1.8 billion in 2003. Use of the condom was first noted in published literature in the early 1500s. The device was originally made of linen, and historians believe the legendary lover Casanova used linen condoms. Historical records show that even in 1850 B.C., women attempted to practice birth control. The most common method was a mixture of crocodile dung and honey placed in the vagina in the hopes of preventing pregnancy. Although nearly any body part or item of clothing may be an object of sexual fetishism, the shoe and the foot are the two most common fetishes in Western society. Just a decade ago, only 25% of women reported experiencing orgasm as a result of intercourse. In recent years, this number has risen to about 45%. In contrast, over 80% of women report experiencing orgasm though oral sex. The vibrator, a common sex toy for women, was originally designed in the nineteenth century as a medication to combat the anxiety-related symptoms of “hysteria” (now known as menstruation). Homosexuality was listed as a mental illness with the American Psychiatric Association (APA) until 1973. It has since been removed and is now considered an orientation by the APA instead of an illness. Throughout the United States, approximately 4% of the population self-identifies as gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Approximately 1% of people worldwide identify as asexual (having no strong sexual attraction to either sex). One in five Americans has been sexually involved with a coworker Statistics suggest that approximately one in every five Americans has indulged in sex with a colleague at work. Approximately 70% of people in the U.S. admit to fantasizing about group sex at some point in their life, and more than 50% of those people actually follow through. Nearly one in four Americans (65 millions people) are currently living with an incurable sexually transmitted disease (STD). During 2007, more than 2.5 million people worldwide became infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. With these new cases, there are now 33 million people living with AIDS throughout the world. Since AIDS was first diagnosed in 1981, more than 25 million people have died as a result of the virus. Two million people died from AIDS in the year 2007 alone. The average male produces several million new sperm daily. Conversely, a female is born with a finite amount of eggs and will produce no more than that throughout her lifetime. Statistics show that approximately 90% of men and 65% of women masturbate from time to time. Worldwide, 27.5% of women report that they felt pressured into having sex for the first time compared to 15% of men reporting the same feelings. According to a 2007 worldwide sex survey, the average age when people first have sex is 19.25. The survey also found that people in Asian countries tended to lose their virginity at a much later age (an average of 22) than those in Western cultures (an average of 18). The car is second only to the bedroom as a favorite place to have sex Outside of the bedroom, the most common place for adults in the U.S. to have sex is the car. The average couple spends about 20 minutes engaged in sexual foreplay prior to intercourse. Worldwide, sexually active adults report having sex an average of 103 times per year. This number is down from an average of 127 times per year in 2003. One report states that 48% of women have faked an orgasm at least once in their life. Interestingly, an identical 48% of men also report faking an orgasm at least once. Throughout the world, approximately 25% of people report having had only one sexual partner. Conversely, 21% of people report having more than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. One survey reports that 53% of sexually active Americans claim to have sex at least once weekly. However, only 48% of Americans report being satisfied with their sex life. Many of the ingredients in chocolate are proven to cause arousal similar in effect to sexual foreplay. In fact, some experts believe chocolate may be even more effective than foreplay for sexual arousal. Both men and women can be turned on by the aromas of wine. The scents of many wines are believed to replicate human pheromones, the chemical substances that cause behavioral responses in humans. Endorphins released during sexual activity create a euphoria similar to that produced by opioid drug use. These same endorphins also act as extremely effective pain killers. See An Infograph on SEX

Hungry for HE-MEN!

Women still complain that there is a double standard when it comes to males and females dating. Men who run through multiple women are celebrated as players, while women who date a lot are regarded as sluts. But things seem to be changing. Many of the biggest names in Hollywood toss men aside like last night’s bones, and they’re still well-regarded in the public eye. The following ladies are not famous because they sleep around or for their relationship drama. They’re famous for being stars. But they also don’t let their fame get in the way of getting whatever or whomever they want.

Lindsay Lohan

Her Meals: Aaron Carter, Wilmer Valderrama, Shaun White, James Blunt

What can we say here that hasn’t already been said about America’s biggest party girl and train wreck? Well, no matter how many mug shots and tabloid covers Lohan makes, the guys keep coming. Even her conversion to lesbianism with Samantha Ronson hasn’t stopped her from ripping through man meat.

Chelsea Handler

Her Meals: Comcast CEO Ted Harbert, Dave Salmoni, 50 Cent

This comedienne and late-night host became famous by writing the book My Horizontal Life: A Collection of One Night Stands. Handler loves vodka and men, and goes through both at rapid rates. You’d think men would avoid her upon realizing their latest argument may become material for her act. But something about her brash charm is like a tractor beam. They’re powerless in her gaze.

Natalie Portman

Her Meals: Lukas Haas, Devendra Banhart, Gael Garcia Bernal, Jake Gyllenhaal

While Portman was able to steal away her baby-daddy, ballet dancer Benjamin Millepied, from his longtime girlfriend during the filming of Black Swan, that’s not nearly as scandalous as the rumor that she had a hand in Sean Penn’s divorce from Robin Wright last year. Just one more name on the expecting mother’s list that hopefully won’t see any more additions.

Kim Kardashian

Her Meals: Damon Thomas, Ray J, Reggie Bush, Miles Austin

While already a well-known socialite, Kardashian became even more notorious when her sex tape with rapper Ray J hit the public. Rather than go on the defensive and repair her image, Kardashian embraced it with a reality television series and by lining up a series of professional athletes on her doorstep. Even football star Terrell Owens made public his infatuation with her and hired a matchmaking service to set him up with a Kim look-alike. After her sister Khloe married Los Angeles Lakers star Lamar Odom, Kim couldn’t be outdone and is now dating New Jersey Net Kris Humphries.

Drew Barrymore

Her Meals: Jamie Walters, Tom Green, Luke Wilson, Fabrizio Moretti, Justin Long

Barrymore doesn’t seem the type to make this list. She’s always so cute and lovable onscreen. But that’s just because we still remember her from E.T. While she’s reformed from the bad-girl days of her youth, she is still addicted to man-eating. Rockers, comedians, actors, commercial actors -- no one is safe from her jaws.

Jennifer Lopez

Her Meals: Wesley Snipes, Sean “P. Diddy” Combs, Chris Judd, Ben Affleck

If we were to provide a description of J. Lo’s “type,” it would have to start and end with the word “male.” Before her marriage to Latin gremlin Marc Anthony, she dated a host of vastly different actors,rappers and singers. Recently named the Most Beautiful Person in the world by People magazine at 41 years old, Lopez can still break hearts.

Scarlett Johansson

Her Meals: Jared Leto, Justin Timberlake, Josh Hartnett, Ryan Reynolds

ScarJo may still be young, but she has left a trail of male bodies in her wake. Despite saying in an interview that she doesn’t believe humans are instinctively monogamous, she married actor Ryan Reynolds in 2008. Two years later, their divorce is all over the headlines. Now she’s running around with Sean Penn. Yeah, there’s no way that won’t work out. 

Angelina Jolie

Her Meals: Jonny Lee Miller, Timothy Hutton, Billy Bob Thornton, Val Kilmer

The rumors, which we choose to believe, are such that, when Jolie and Brad Pitt first started their affair, the passionate sounds from their hotel room made fellow guests believe jungle cats had been let loose. Aside from being woman enough to break him and Jennifer Aniston up, you know she must be something to convince him to have all those children. 

Madonna

Her Meals: Sean Penn, Warren Beatty, Vanilla Ice, Dennis Rodman, Guy Ritchie, Jesus Luz, Alex Rodriguez

The only surprise here may be that Madonna is not number one on this list. The Material Girl has a long history of running through men and some women. She makes no bones about this in public or in her song lyrics. Sure, it seemed like she finally settled down with Guy Ritchie, but while Kabbalah promotes unconditional love, it also does generosity of spirit, the benefits of which Rodriguez was likely more than happy to reap.

Julia Roberts

Her Meals: Kiefer Sutherland, Jason Patric, Lyle Lovett, Matthew Perry, Liam Neeson, Dylan McDermott, Benjamin Bratt

Roberts plays America’s sweetheart on the silver screen, but she has a history of ripping them out of the chests of men left, right and center in real life. Her long-time relationship with Benjamin Bratt reportedly ended in an amicable split, but that’s only the beginning. She had been engaged to Dylan McDermott but jumped over to Kiefer Sutherland. That wedding was going to be huge, until she called it off mere days beforehand to run off with Sutherland’s one-time Lost Boys costar Jason Patric. To her credit, she did marry Lyle Lovett, only to divorce him after less than two years of marriage, maybe upon realizing that she had married Lyle Lovett.

Her man-eating ways know no bounds apparently, with her bringing an end to other people’s relationships as well, as when she met current husband Danny Moder while he was still married. There is a happy ending to this story, though, as they’ve been together for almost a decade. Here’s hoping she doesn’t start to channel her Pretty Woman character again.

  

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Premature Ejaculation - Men's Never Ending Worry

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  • What You Need To Know
  • The most important thing in making a woman cum is relaxation.
  • Focus on stimulation rather than penetration. Solution? Foreplay.
  • Besides foreplay, focus on female pleasure positions.

  "Your mom could walk in the room (we hope she doesn’t), and you wouldn’t be able to stop."

Can't last as long as you'd like to during sex? It may not even matter. The truth is you could last longer than the director's cut of Inception, and it wouldn't make a bit of difference if you weren't giving a woman the right kind of stimulation. Learn a few key tricks, though, and you can give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm with just a few minutes of intercourse. The secret? It’s all about timing. Read on to learn about managing premature ejaculation by taking advantage of the 90-second window.


Get In The Window

When it comes to, well, cumming, men and women are very different. Guys have a point of what’s called orgasmic inevitability. This is the moment when you’re going to pass the point of no return and climax, no matter what. Your mom could walk in the room (we hope she doesn’t), and you wouldn’t be able to stop. But women don’t have orgasmic inevitability. In fact, many women claim that they can “lose” an orgasm when they’re right on the verge of having it. 

That’s where the “window of female orgasmic opportunity” comes in. This is the minute and a half, (aka the 90-second window) when she’s close to climaxing -- and the right moves can help push her over the edge and ensure her orgasm. Here’s how.


Set The Mood

Studies show that women are more likely to orgasm when comfortable and relaxed during sex. Researchers in the Netherlands found that the key to female arousal seems to be a deep sense of relaxation. In a study in which the brains of men and women were scanned during the process of sexual response using a technique called positron emission tomography (PET), the results showed that the parts of the female brain responsible for processing fear, anxiety and high emotion deactivate during sexual activity. And at peak, during orgasm, the female brain’s emotion centers close down, producing an almost trance-like state. So do whatever you can to make her feel at ease and less stressed. 


Focus On Foreplay

Next, start stimulating her biggest sex organ: the brain. Research shows that most women fantasize during sex, probably because it helps them relax. Share a hot fantasy -- starring her, of course. After some mental foreplay, you should transition into some serious physical foreplay. When it comes to premature ejaculation, never forget about foreplay. Lots of us view foreplay as a quick round of appetizers, when we should be thinking of it as a main course. Think clitorally rather than vaginally; focus on stimulation as opposed to penetration. Many women say that they climax most consistently from receiving oral sex, for example. So start treating foreplay like its own form of lovemaking, and give it equal -- if not more -- weight as intercourse.

"Most women have an innate capacity to achieve multiple orgasms..."

Pay Attention It’s easy to get lost in your own pleasure, but if you want to help a woman orgasm, you have to focus on her, too. It’s common for women to turn inward when they’re turned on, so don’t rely on moans of pleasure to guide your way. Instead, watch for tension in her muscles, especially in her hands, feet and pelvis. If you’re not sure, ask her to give you a sign when she’s getting close, like a squeeze of your hand.

Don’t Stop

If it seems like something’s working, don’t change it. When a woman is close to climaxing, she needs consistency, not variety. Keep using your penis, hand, mouth, toy, or whatever else to provide resistance to her clitoris while letting her do the work. This clitoral pressure is more important for her pleasure than simply thrusting.

Get Her On Top

When she’s ready for intercourse, pull her on top of you. Also called female-superior, it’s the best sex position for helping a woman climax because it provides clitoral stimulation. You can also try CAT (coital alignment technique): You’re on top, but focus on deep thrusting while keeping pressure on her clitoris from your pelvis. 

Relax And Enjoy

While you might both orgasm at the same time, it’s more likely that one of you will be first. Keep this in mind when it comes to dealing with premature ejaculation. If that’s you, don’t sweat it. Keep her in the window: It will take about 90 seconds to lose your erection, so she should still be able to climax if you’re providing consistent clitoral stimulation with your pelvis. 

She Comes First

And if she comes first? Enjoy her orgasm, and congratulate yourself on a job well done. Most women have an innate capacity to achieve multiple orgasms, so get to work on that second one. 

Few more Tips:

Whenever you hear something like`It`s not a big deal, it happens to everyone`, there is only one thing that you think of. Not so great sex (to put it mildly), which, in most cases, can be a consequence of two things: inability to perform or premature ejaculation. If your partner is having troubles with the second one, here are some of the things you may want to consider.

Premature ejaculation is really not a big deal if it happens very rarely, but if that is something that you have to deal with every time you have sex, it can be a frustrating and nerve-racking experience. The most important thing is to face the problem by doing something that will prevent it.

One of the most reliable things that your partner can use is a drink that consists of 10 to 12 almonds, cardamom, saffron, a cup of milk and ginger. These should be mixed in a blender but almonds have to be soaked in water during the night and peeled off before you blend them together with the rest of ingredients. It is best if this drink is consumed early in the morning.

Being relaxed is one of the crucial things when premature ejaculation is in question. There is no point in blaming your partner and you shouldn`t make him feel bad about it. Be very supportive and try not to make a big deal out of it. Make sure that you are kind and loving so that he is not additionally frustrated.

His eating habits are also a major issue as some food items can be extremely beneficial. Premature ejaculation can be avoided if foods like onions, bananas, carrots and celery are added to almost every meal.

There is also one more thing that you can count on. Yoga has proved to be beneficial for a vast number of things. Preventing premature ejaculation is one of those things but only certain yoga positions will do the trick. Namely, camel pose, fish pose, bow pose and elevated lotus can be tried out as they guarantee that this problem will be taken care of.

Using mustard oil to massage the penis can be an interesting experience with positive results. Massaging the relevant area is good when it comes to relaxation and getting rid of anxiety and nervousness, which are very common causes of premature ejaculation.

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